Telling

How would you feel if you were around someone who is always telling you what to do? Telling is how most riders communicate to their horses. Most people punish a horse who doesn’t obey them. Punishment is nothing more than do this or suffer. If the horse obeys, often the reward is not something the horse wants but rather something the teller wishes to give. Zum still has trouble learning to move forward. I continue to ask, not tell.